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A Church Grows in By
Bill Maxwell Times-April,
11, 2004 At
a time when religion and religionrelated issues are Balkanizing our nation, a
church in I
am not religious, but I believe that this church is special because of how it
came into being and how it was built In
January 2001, in a field in He
was right to worry because, although the church is complete and the membership
is growing, building the modest structure severely challenged the congregants'
personal lives. From
the start, the women, inspired by their faith, agreed to learn all they needed
to learn to build their special sanctuary. Although St Athanasios was
established in 1995, it did not have a permanent home and held services in four
different spaces during the next five years, including a room at the local Days
Inn motel
and in the Rev. Greer's living room. Purchasing the property on which to build
was the easy part The heavy lifting started when the cash-strapped group had to
buy construction materials. In addition to using their own money and accepting
donations, parishioners did one of the things they do best They held bake
sales. And they have raised thousands of dollars. As
happy customers bought the baked goods, they had no idea that behind the scenes,
each woman had to supply the ingredients, making everything from scratch. She
also had to invest many hours of her time and hike the family's electric bill
each month. Several husbands complained mightily, causing longlasting, deep
friction for some marriages. Ultimately, though, baking and selling drew the
women closer. together. Members
were secretly amused when their friends and neighbors doubted that they could
build a church. "When
we first started telling people that we were doing this construction,"
Catherine Spears said, "they didn't really believe us until we started
getting the framework up. And then you'd be surprised how many cars stopped,
parked on the side of the road and watched what we were doing. They could see
there were only three, at the most four, guys at a time. The rest of the work
force was women. These guys would just sit in their trucks, with their mouths
wide open, looking as the church went
up." Soon,
more people, especially men with construction experience, volunteered. Such help
came at the right time because the lone male congregant who had experience quit
the church halfway through the project "I
think a lot of volunteers came because word got around town about this small
group, mainly women, was willing to get out there every weekend, from The
women like to talk about the physical effort of building the church, and each
acknowledges a heightened spirituality as a result of the experience. "The
ordeal of constructing the church is not just about the making of one
building," Stephanie Brady said. "Its about the construction of a
parish, a living, viable family. That takes work and effort The best part is by
working together, united on a large project, we strengthen our presence in everyone
in the parish because of the intimate contact we've had to maintain . . .
through financial difficulties." Spears:
"When we started the construction, I was very intimidated. But I and the
rest of the women quickly learned how to drive nails, put up walls, do
insulation and cut the outside sheetrock and nail it up. We also learned how
to put up siding and caulk it It was so empowering to learn how to do the
different facets of the construction work. I realized that there was not much
that I could not do once I set my mind to do it The work was hard, and I went
home exhausted. But there was a sense of accomplishment at the end of the day. "I
believe that building this church has deepened my faith in God and the miracles
that occur around us every day." All
parishioners agree that St Athanasios probably still would be a mere dream if
not for the Rev. Greer's leadership. A 51-year-old Greek-American, Greer earned
a bachelor's degree in journalism from Then,
he followed his dream to establish a parish
in Greer
turned down several offers to head large parishes elsewhere, one in With
an all-time high of 30 members, of which six are men, the church still holds
bake sales to raise funds to finish landscaping and, of course, to complete the
pastor's office and private quarters. John
Choate, whose wife also is a member, said that working alongside the women
changed his life: "I am an English and theater teacher by trade, so I'm not
really at home on a roof laying metal in 100-degree heat I was completely
unprepared to do physical labor for 10 hours a day. One thing that kept me going
and kept me humble was watching the ladies work and struggle every day right
along with the men. Whenever I wanted to take a break, I would see the ladies
hammering away for hours on end. That really kept me motivated. Not only did
they do the physical labor, but they kept baking baklava and having bake sales,
which kept the funds coming in for construction. They were truly
amazing." Back to Parish news |
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